Marriage (or wedding, I'm not sure which word describes the ritual better), is stupid. Marriage is, a symbolic ritual, usually held between two people so that they show that they commit to the other person. Bunch of horseshit if you ask me.
If you really have feelings for the person, want to be with the person on a daily basis, have kids from that person and that person is willing to commit to that, just fucking do so! Why on earth would you need to set up an unbelievably fucking stupid and useless (and costly) ceremony that would last for one day for that? You don't.
Now, there is the religious type of marriage, which I will not even discuss, because religion is stupid and anyone who feels like having to prove something to a person, who allegedly died for the actions of every other human being that are considered immoral by a religious manuscript, can go jump off a bridge and hit their head on a railway. You deserve it and you should do it! Do it, the bible says you should!
The reason why marriage happens, from my opinion, is fear. Pure raw fear from the depths of human emotion. The people that require marriage to have an illusion of safety. An illusion that their partner will never leave them, especially if the two (or more) have children. If you are afraid the person might leave, it means you do not trust the person, in which case, you are not commited to the person enough to be having a marriage in the first place. It also means that you are pretty much an insecure and miserable fuck, and are hoping that this ritual will somehow be something at all significant. You cannot control the other person, no matter how much you would like it.
Another thing I would like to mention is that, well, intimate relationships are not bound to be only monogamous. It is, in fact, possible, to have a poligamous intimate relationship. However, there is a social stigma assigned to that, since most of the kids get raised on the idea of finding that one person to spend the rest of their lives with, which is rarely the case in the real life.
I would also like to give an advice to, well, mostly guys. Folks, if you are feeling horny, have a relationship, and tell the other person that you want sex and hear:"No sex before wedding," I really, really, really reccomend you to control your anger to try and not punch the person in the face, take all your belongings from that person, walk away, and never, ever contact that person again. I should have done it when I had my chance, don't make my mistake, you might end up being in a relationship with an insecure psycho.
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