Life is not fair, get over it!
Why on earth do people bother bringing their own sense of fairness and justice into the real world? Yes, there are the blind, the crippled, the ugly, the fat, the miserable, the poor, the stupid (vast majority), and so on. That is how they are, and let them be like that. People should be only helped to be able to help themselves. If a person is unwilling to work/fight for what it desires, I assume the person does not desire it much in the first place.
Stop trying to make the world fair, you will never succeed! Sometimes horrible shit happens to people just for no reason and there is nothing you can do about it. Your compassion is rarely needed at all.
Speaking of compassion and sympathy, there's a reason I don't like apologies. I just don't see the point. Why would saying something justify the harm done to a person? One guy in my school was insulting me for almost a year, and I have to admit, that by the end of year, he apologised, and, you know what, although I was surprised, for he was one of the few who actually apologised about that, I got angry. An apology is oftentimes nothing more as means used to get guilty conscience off of your back. If you have no guilt, you do not need the apology. Imagine you killed someone's wife, and then said to the person you're sorry for killing the wife, you think your apology would matter at all that much to the person that has lost a significant other? I think not.
Anyway, returning to the topic of life being unfair, let's mention charity, shall we?
Charity is fucking stupid. Period. I mean mostly the charity of giving something to the poor. Help those people help themselves and leave them the fuck alone. If a person is unwilling to do any work at all in order to get money, let the person take care of itself any way it can. If a person is crippled (say, it has lost several limbs), then let the person do the work it is still able to do, if not physical work, then mental work. By feeling sorry for those people, you are only encouraging them to feel sorry for themselves.
''But I lost my whole arm in a war!'' Too bad for you, however, I think you knew that it was possible when you went to the location of ongoing combat, and, since you knew the consequences and still decided to take on the risk, don't try to cause my compassion for your loss, which you could have prevented.
ANY loss that is sustained during circumstances in which the person perfectly knew it could have sustained (like, say, drunk driver gets into a car accident, a sportist suffers an injury, a person in a combat area loses a limb or dies), should not be felt sorry for, period. Why? Simple, because if the person knew the possible risk of the actions it was performing and was still willing to perform said actions, the person decided that the actions performed are well worth the risk.
My thoughts seem to have become way too chaotic lately. I can barely write any argumentation, instead, I seem to just make statements. What the hell is going on with me?
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